There are many different ways to deal with the death of a loss one. Some ways to deal with the death is to remember the happier moments with the loved one that has passed away. For instance, when my fish died I was very sad. He was a blue & purple Betta fish. I remember the times when I used to watch him swim around like Nemo with his cripple fin. I used to feed him chicken, beef, even Chipotle!!! He loved Chipotle more than I ever will. I never really gave him a set name, so I called him whatever came to mind. There is nothing like losing something/someone so dear to you. Eventually, I got over the loss of my fish and got a new one!
This time it was a girl and she was a gangsta fish, she was a straight G. I got her ass a pistol, a knife and a straight razor. I attempted to get her a boyfriend fish but she was very abusive. She used to bite him, cut him, and even tried to shoot him. The two had to be separated because of the violence. I never understood why she was so mean to him but, I eventually found out. He cheated on her in the Walmart I got them from. She wanted her revenge and got what she wanted.
In other instances, coping may not come as easily. My junior year of high school my friend Travon Scott passed away. I remember laughing and joking with him on that Wednesday in school. The next day (Thursday) he did not attend school, I didn't think nothing of it. That Friday I found out on Facebook that he had passed. I would have never thought that someone that I was so cool with & and be with everyday would all of a sudden be gone. To this day, I still cant believe that he died. I later found out that it was due to heart failure. We were supposed to graduate together along with the rest of our friends in our class. So on our graduation day, they honored him which made me feel like he was still there with us.
Relax In Paradise Travon Andrew Scott !
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